fix: prevent cache on optional package resolve (v3) (#10812)

[bluwy]

cherry pick of #10812 for v3. looks like it isn't affecting heavily on ecosystem-ci

ref: withastro/astro#5145

[patak-dev]

/ecosystem-ci run

[vite-ecosystem-ci]

📝 Ran ecosystem CI: Open

suite	result
astro	✅ success
histoire	✅ success
iles	✅ success
ladle	✅ success
laravel	✅ success
marko	✅ success
nuxt-framework	✅ success
rakkas	✅ success
svelte	✅ success
vite-plugin-ssr	✅ success
vite-setup-catalogue	✅ success
vitepress	✅ success
vitest	✅ success
windicss	✅ success

[patak-dev]

@dominikg added support for testing the v3 branch on vite-ecosystem-ci. @bluwy I think you need to target v3 with this PR though 🤔. And then we can run ecosystem CI against it.

[bluwy]

Ughh I forgot to change that 😅