[chore] Upgrade NodeJS instrumentation to latest

[pjanotti]

Supersedes #5800 since additional changes were needed:

• Minimal version supported by the instrumentation is Node v18
• Removal of ubuntu-bionic from the test matrix since Node v18 is not available on the package manager for that OS version

Keeping #5800 open until this one is merged to avoid a creation of a new PR updating the instrumentation.

[codecov]

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All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Project coverage is 28.81%. Comparing base (f0c63e9) to head (f8b11de).
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