[0.73] Fix Paper/Fabric builds not working with USE_FRAMEWORKS=static

[shwanton]

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Summary:

0.73 builds for Paper & Fabric were failing to build in xcode when USE_FRAMEWORKS=static was used in pod install

USE_FRAMEWORKS=static USE_HERMES=1 bundle exec pod install

Header search paths were changed in core. On macOS we append -macOS to our framework folders.

Changelog:

[MACOS][FIXED] - [0.73] Fix builds to use the correct header search paths

Test Plan:

[shwanton]

After further testing. Fabric & Paper builds w/o USE_FRAMEWORKS=static are working fine in 0.73.
Repurposing this diff to fix use_frameworks for macOS.

[shwanton]

Closing in favor of #1967