Consider switching to LLVM-style RTTI for `Node`s and `NodeStateData`

[arcondello]

See https://llvm.org/docs/HowToSetUpLLVMStyleRTTI.html

The upshot is keeping an enum of all possible node types and then storing that value on each instantiated object. The benefit is much faster type checking and casting, the downside is a small increase in the memory footprint of each instantiated object. Also a decent amount of boilerplate.

[arcondello]

One issue: for open class hierarchies (which we want to support) RTTIExtends does not support virtual inheritance. See https://llvm.org/doxygen/ExtensibleRTTI_8h_source.html (as of August 2025). I think this blocks our implementation of ArrayNode for instance. Still might be useful for NodeData though