[chore] Fix update-deps script to not miss module upgrades (#5874)

When we run go get... and go tidy in particular modules, it may affect modules that depend on it. If the dependent modules modified, running `go get ...` there fails with
```
go: updates to go.mod needed; to update it:
	go mod tidy
```

In order to fix that, we need to run go tidy in all the modules after updating every module

Author: dmitryax

update-deps

@@ -43,12 +43,6 @@ update_gomod() {
     if [ -n "$(go list -f '{{if not .Indirect}}{{.Path}}{{end}}' -m ${pkgs}/... 2>/dev/null)" ]; then
         echo "Updating ${pkgs}/... in $gomod to $version"
         go get ${pkgs}/...@${version}
-        if [ -f Makefile ]; then
-            make tidy
-        else
-            rm -f go.sum
-            go mod tidy
-        fi
     fi
 
     popd >/dev/null
@@ -57,6 +51,5 @@ update_gomod() {
 for gomod in $( find "$REPO_DIR" -name "go.mod" | grep -v "/examples/" | sort ); do
     update_gomod "$gomod" "$CORE_PKGS" "$CORE_VERSION"
     update_gomod "$gomod" "$CONTRIB_PKGS" "$CONTRIB_VERSION"
+    make -C "$REPO_DIR" tidy-all
 done
-
-make -C "$REPO_DIR" for-all CMD='make tidy'